Wish I knew earlier

Just a few thousand years ago, our

ancestors were hiding in caves,

huddled together for warmth &

protection.

Every day was a matter of life or death.

Doesn't it make sense that our society

would have some pretty deep-set

issues around fear and success?

With that said, it doesn't mean we can't

turn those issues around. It starts with

what you tell your own children, today.

Here are two things every kid needs to

hear:

1. You're fine the way you are.

You are who you are, and that's good

enough. I love you no matter what.

2. You can't control others.

Being nice to others doesn't mean they'll

be nice to you. Being respectful doesn't

mean you'll get respect.

Don't sweat it when someone's nasty

toward you. It has nothing to do with you,

or who you are.

Be kind & respectful anyway.

To great success,

James Lee
6th Degree Black Belt
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The Fastest Way to Get What You Want in Life.

We all have goals, dreams, things we want to accomplish. Most of us simply don’t know how to get there though. We hit our heads against the wall, wondering why our dreams aren’t coming true.

Maybe your goals are fitness-related, career-related, family-related, or something completely different. Whatever they are, I have one word of advice for you that I truly believe works - no matter what you’re after:

Get out of your comfort zone. Let me explain...

Imagine in the future there’s a version of you that has exactly what you want. Wouldn’t you agree that your future self has different habits, a different lifestyle, and a different way of going about life than you do?

Following this logic, doesn’t it make sense that to become this future person, you have to start changing those very same habits, lifestyle choices and attitudes now... in order for them to grow into your future self?

If you’re with me this far, then it becomes clear that there is only one way to make these changes: and that is to get out of your comfort zone. The habits, choices you make and attitudes you have right now are producing the results you currently have in your life.

What you think, feel, and do on a daily basis is your current comfort zone. By making even small changes to your daily regimen, you can start to grow into who you truly want to be. Do you want to be happier? When you look in the mirror, give yourself compliments. Do things that you imagine a happy person would do - even if they seem strange or scary. Smile at more people. Start warm conversations more often. Give others compliments. Do you want to lose weight? Order different foods, or go to completely different restaurants and grocery stores.

These changes will feel uncomfortable - but that’s the point. What you’re comfortable with right now produces the results you currently have in your life. To change, you have to do things that feel scary, uncomfortable and maybe even weird. But years from now, when you’ve completely changed your attitudes, habits and beliefs about who you are, and what you can accomplish - you’ll look back and thank your past self for making those changes.

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Hey!

A lot of people out there present
fat-loss solutions as "magic bullets"...

They say, "Take our pill and your
weight problems will be gone!"

"Buy our exercise machine and
never deal with fat again!"

The thing is, there's only one
*true* magic bullet for fat loss.

Check it out here, in our latest
blog post:

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(Hint: It's not what you'd expect) 

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Whoa! I saw this old proverb and

was stopped dead in my tracks:

 

"Our first teacher is our own heart."

 

What a great lesson. I think if we all

listened to that beating thing in our

chests more often, we'd get more of

what we want in life.

 

The interesting thing is, kids seem

to have this down better than anyone

;-)

 

To great success,

James Lee
6th Degree Black Belt
http://www.kidslovemartialartsastoria.com

http://www.astoriamartialarts.com

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Confident

How to Become More Confident, Today

Confidence is greatly misunderstood. Most people think some are just born with it, and others aren’t. The truth is, confidence is a practice. It’s a skill. It’s a knife that, unless sharpened daily, becomes a dull blade.

In this article, we’ll go over one unexpected way that helps people become confident, fast. Here it is:

Confidence comes from the inside. But what’s inside is influenced by what’s outside. Our surroundings play a large part in how we feel. When we’re surrounded by people, places and situations that make us feel joy and strength, our confidence flows. When we’re surrounded by messes, clutter, and environments that drain us - our confidence becomes chained inside of us.

To be confident, you have to surround yourself with things that make you feel confident. That means clothes, people, music, objects, etc. Everything in your life has to remind you of who you are, and that you’re a worthy, strong person.

For example, I once met a graphic designer who was full of remarkable talent. However, she felt held back. She felt like she wasn’t as inspired or impassioned as she should be. She worked at a clunky, old, slow laptop. And she didn’t have a proper desk or workspace.

Then, she saved up, and got herself a brand new, sleek, fast computer. She got a beautiful desk, and filled it with inspiring images, books, and pieces of art. Instantly, her creativity flourished. She worked faster, harder, and more enjoyably.

She says these changes brought out her confidence. And her confidence let her brilliance flow.
Many people write off clothes, furniture, and other objects as being “materialistic”. But consider this... We’re made of material. Our bodies are completely material. Doesn’t it make sense that other material objects and surroundings would influence us?

For a writer, having a favorite pen and notebook makes all the difference. For a handyman, it’s having a toolset he can be proud of.

So ask yourself, do the objects in your life help your confidence flow? Or do they keep it chained up?

If you hate your clothes... your furniture... the mess in your kitchen... the pictures on your wall... It eats away at you. Even if money is tight, there are small changes you can start making today. Replace more and more of what you don’t like over time, and before you know it, everything in your life will inspire your confidence.

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